Can I grope a naked hunky man regularly for the purpose of improving my relationship with my wife?

I love my wife very much, but sometimes I am miserable and need some quick fixes to continue paying attention to my wife. I feel a very strong desire to secretly go to a bathhouse to grope a naked man (no so there is no risk of STD). After touching the man's bare skin, fondling his sensitive part, squeezing mine in between his legs, taking a steamy shower with him and lathering him up and blowing my load, I feel less stressful, feel much better and start being interested in my wife again. I feel guilty because I have to keep this urge of mine in top secret - my wife is disgusted with this man-on-man action and will likely abandon me - I love her and I want to do what needs to be done to give her the attention she deserves. Although this sounds a little unfaithful, the end really justifies the means in this case, isn't it? Is it ok or do you have better fixes?